It’s an excuse for a weakness that is desperate for acceptance.
The weakness is sex, not love or any connection.
He can’t find someone that loves him, but can find any number of sex partners that makes him feel accepted.
Our liberal PC culture is attempting to make sexual desires, whether gay or straight, into a normal expression of what a lasting relationship needs.
It’s pure evil.
I agree with you. Using another person to satisfy your genital urge is not love.