he’s 63 and doesn’t understand deductible???? What, he’s never insured anything in his life?
I wouldn't expect the average man-in-the-street to automatically understand concepts like deductible, copay, co-insurance, MOOP, or capitation, among others.
Some of the newer variations like cost-sharing subsidies in certain silver plans take a moment to sink in even among the better read of the rest of us.