Careful. You're getting close to a truth which will get you hammered from both the Right and the Left.
The problem is not that the thug fathers didn't stick around.
The problem is that the slut women sleep with "exciting" thugs instead of "boring" responsible men. If the women suddenly decided to only date men who had a decent job and were responsible and stable, the situation would be reversed really quickly. Thugs, faced with a future of involuntary celibacy, would start looking for jobs. Younger thugs might even decide to try to learn something in school, so they would qualify for a job.
How to accomplish this reversal? Abolish welfare and affirmative action for women. If women faced starvation for making bad choices, they might start making good choices.
I quite agree, and if I’m not being hammered from both right and left I figure I’m doing something wrong.