well, he could have just cut over his dinky and be done with it.../sarc
OR, he could have simply used condom OR he could have just saved sexual relationships until he was married or at least found a woman he wanted to have children with....
but he didn't do any of that now did he....
How is it in any way equitable for him to be restricted to the pre-pregnancy slate of choices you provide, while she can unilaterally decide to make him an indentured servant, or unilaterally decide to kill his offspring, subsequent to said pregnancy?
Women's Equality, indeed!