Sometimes that is how many it takes.
3 didn’t do the trick.
It ain't easy being a parent and it aint easy being an observant adult that sees trouble and WANTS to say something .. but ...
Yesterday my son dropped by with my 2 yr old grandson and in the course of conversation and watching Blake play, I remarked about something to my son regarding (what I consider) a failure on my part with him and that I saw the same attitude with him and my grandson.
I didn't want to say it because I knew it might alienate me from my son, but I ALSO knew ... i HAD to say it.
I don't think I alienated my son, but he didn't like what I said ... and I'm glad I said it.