I once used my finger to call over (come here gesture) to a women who was from the Philippines. She got all angry and said that they do this only to donkeys....
I have had women get mad at me for saying “Ma’am” because they say they are not old....
I guess it is women who are the problem right (he ducks)
I think you might have heard her wrong. It means do you want to uh, make love.