Sure, it doesn’t matter how a gun fits you. That’s logical.
Since the women folk in your clan are impervious to recoil and have the arm and finger reach of an orangutan, I suggest that you get them started on a 20mm Lahti converted into a pistol.
The FAA requires pilots use oxygen over 10,500 feet. Coloradans do aerobics at over 12,500 feet. Skiing, hiking, off road motorcycles etc. All day long. Flatlanders turn blue sitting in a chair at 12,500 feet. Perhaps that makes us less recoil sensitive.