There was every attempt to deal with King George in a civil manner before this happened. The very level headed and very devout George Washington was a very large part of the reason.
In this case, I say those beating the drums for war ought to look at the civil Constitution first.
Just DO it, states.
No one wants a war, we want the government to follow the Constitution. That said, the people and the states retain the right to defense of self and state.