RE: At no point in my life, no matter how horny, I have never considered a homosexual act as an alternative.
Maybe you were not born with the excess “female” hormones? .... only “male” ones...
Most men feel a sense of revulsion in the idea of a homosexual act. It is why they have often reacted violently to even the slightest move on the part of a gay guy.
In the bad old days of my youth in NYC, it was common to see gay friends and gay co-workers showing up with black eyes and cut lips. We all knew what had happened the night before!