The shelling in the vids is all Kiev troops shelling towns and villages in the Southeast.
The Rebels are responding, but not with the massive bombardments the vids show. They just don’t have the heavy guns, or a large number of rocket launchers.
“I don’t know how to tell her that the Russians are at fault.”
The Russians are certainly a party to what is going on, but I can’t honestly say it is “their fault”.
NONE of this would be happening had not the elected government been overthrown in a violent coup, whose first proclamations were that they intended to destroy Russians and Russian Culture in Ukraine, that has a large Russian Minority.
Don’t forget, they’re all Nazis.
None of this would be happening if Putin had not invaded Crimea, sown hatred and paranoia in eastern Ukraine and sent his soldiers, weapons and armor across the border.
Interestingly, the shelling likely came from Russian Grads. And, not surprisingly, Russian state media was on hand to record the grisly results.