As at least two of us have said, you can do whatever you choose to do. That is your right.
My father’s grandmother died of cervical cancer. This was at a time when the only sex men could (generally) have was at local brothels. My father disliked his father for being a lousy husband and provider. I now wonder - in light of all this talk of STDs - if he didn’t cheat on the lovely lady as well. She died at 36.
I meant my father’s mother, not grandmother.