I try not to pick unnecessary fights among Christians.
God bless you and yours!
The trouble point is the claim (and evangelical churches sometimes do this as well, with equally self-hobbling results): “God said our institution comes up with all the right answers.” The more a particular Christian has had unmistakably supernatural experience of the actual Lord, a Spirit who lives up to His biblical credentials and who conquers lesser spirits, the less he or she will be to fall into this difficulty. If honest, we find ourselves at times to be uncomfortably God-phobic. We’ve got more sin than we would like to believe we do. And the actual grace of God amazes more and more.
And ultimately “sexual perversions” are seen as wrong not because a church said so, but because the exquisite merit of the plan that the Lord ordained shows those distortions up for the phoniness that they are.
To be blunt, sinful humanity, when dealing with this kind of love, is so often like bulls in a china shop.