He’ll move on. He wants to be a fire fighter, the problem is he will need to lose 100 pounds before that happens. :)
Type 2 diabetic diet does wonders for weight loss, and cholesterol lowering, just ditch the high sugar fruits.
If he is not willing to work hard for you, he won’t as a fire fighter either. Health issues will start to set in real soon if he is that much over weight. To much time eating, tv, vid games, not enough physical activity.
I have to count every calorie as I am not able to be very physical, to much un fixable spine damage.