For example, the way girls dress and carry themselves in HS and college is not exactly modest, from what I've seen, cheerleaders don't actually cheer lead anymore, but rather engage in very suggestive dirty dancing on the field and court, many are sexually aggressive, and much of their language rivals that of an army boot camp.
Obviously it is not everyone. Maybe not by a long shot. But it seems pervasive. Is all that a front to hide their true quest for love and affection?
“Is this all a front to hide their true quest for love and affection?”
It is admittedly dangerous to over generalize behaviors however in many cases I would say yes. Little girls are being taught that that the way to find love is through flaunting their sexual attributes. I saw it when I was in college and I see it in my daughters’ classmates. Women by the nature of their biology are not the same as men ( despite what feminists may declare) Even promiscuous women who cheat with multiple men do so to punish their husbands or boyfriends. Emotion is always tied with sex for women, whether it is revenge, punishment, low self worth (related to early abuse.) Men and women are wired differently when it comes to sex, for women it is never just about fulfilling a biological need. It is naive for any man to think that any woman is only interested in the sexual act.
Regardless abstinence unless a partner in a committed legal and sacramental marriage would solve many if not most problems…for both sexes.