Well, thats your choice. As to why not stay and fight? Because sometimes even the greatest Generals have to recognize their hill can no longer be held. And considering the election results in NY going harder left by the year, it would seem that your tax dollars are only helping them. not your intent I know. But without the conservative income, Liberal NY would crash and burn.
I had my own family obligations. I moved them with me. It royally sucked for a couple years for us. But it was ultimately worth it. No one said it would be easy and it wasn’t. But if people can flee Europe with bare money for a boat ticket, the Average American can relocate even the sickest family member if he tries.
You can stop the lecture now. I’m not real good at listening to lectures from people I don’t know and who don’t know me.