That it is, dear lady. He and I talk about it, often.
My father rarely said anything about the war, since he was a Pharmacists Mate (Corpsman) and aboard ship in the Pacific (nasty crap complete with torpedoes)...but after I was a nurse and got my commission during Viet Nam....he would just give me that look...that......”I know that you know that I know that you know”......kind of look..asnd no words needed to be said after that
GOD I miss him!