bury your only child and see how rationally you speak and act in the first day and week
for some of us the massive grief infuses and lifts us with a great energy to DO something, anything, whether it is the right thing or not, whether it is a rational thing or not
sadly I believe you have to have experience losing your only child (not a parent or sibling, but your only child) to understand
the people to be condemned here are the politicians and celebrities who are using this man and exacerbating his irrationality and ultimately his grieving process) for their own gain - including the family of the psycho killer trying to make common cause with the true victims of their son’s evil