Divorce is devastating to children. All this crap about “they are resilient, they will be fine” is a line of complete garbage. This guy’s dad moved his mom and him out and moved a sex partner in.
I blame the dad.
Same with the kid in Sandy Hook. Dad couldn’t be a man and help his sick son, he had to go drown his sorrows with a new sex partner and let mom cope somehow.
I blame the dad.
Yes, yes, and more yes.
The only caveat I have with your post is that the Sandy Hook killer’s mother was insane as well - buying that kid guns.
Also, who paid for this Santa Barbara killer’s guns? Mommy & Daddy? Does he get such a large allowance that he can go buy any kind of weapon he wants? When I was a kid the only money I got in college was lunch money and subway money.