I can’t vouch for everyone else, but I can tell you that quick thinking and good training can save your arse. I’ve been down that road more times than I can count. No, it’s not because I look for trouble, it’s because I see people in trouble, and I am not the type to not act. Not everybody is an armchair general or whatever you mean. I refuse to be a victim, I’ve been tested a lot, and one day I may fail. If I fail though that means I was still trying.
so you are not married with little kids, you are single, right?