From personal observation
He considers her a heck of a trophy if he can marry her, more so if he can convert her. It is like the black kids who want to seduce a blonde girl for bragging rights, but the domination is permanent.
End result - he lays on the charm and promises thickly. He seems like the nicest, most considerate guy out of the bunch.
Modern men too often come across as eager for a one night stand, make a baby and leave her or otherwise fail to commit. There are girls attracted to a man who says I will marry you for life, I want you to be a stay at home mom with three kids.The feminists drove the American man who wants a stay at home wife into the corner, calling him a domineering patriarchy evil */?!
End result - girls who want the old fashioned marriage model think they have to marry a foreigner. What she doesn’t realize is the freedom and humanity she will lose.
She thinks he’s here to escape that bad life and liberalize. She doesn’t understand that he’ll probably become more conservative when they have kids, especially under pressure by family to make sure the grandkids in America are true Muslims.
The guy who is secularized in college may become more radical than his siblings in Lahore or Dubai in order to retain his identity as a Muslim head of household.
End result - marriage and kids makes him the opposite of what attracted her to him.
Dead on!
My friend was dating a guy who was a “moderate” Muslim, originally from Morocco. He was very charming at first. Then she got pregnant, and he actually married her. While she was engaged, but not yet married, he took her to Morocco to meet his parents. I was scared for her life!. She ended up having another son with him before they divorced. Fortunately, she gave him “sons”. He treated her like dirt and verbally abused her constantly. To add insult to injury, HE filed for spousal support from HER! Their shared custody agreement is a nightmare. He’s doing the same thing with his current fiancee.