I must admit....when I first read you comment my first thought was, “At a girl!”. Our American women are tough.
As one soldier stated previously, it’s training. Not the same as torture.
Personally I would prefer they just put the terrorist in a room with a soldier and a bacon wrapped baseball bat. And leave him there until compliance was gained. Preferably, if they want martyrdom, give it to them after they talk. It’s their choice after all.
If they want to be treated better, they should not be terrorists to begin with.