Yes, all of that may appeal to you, but the facts are that the higher the density of a population, the more likely the residents of that area will be Democrat.
I’m not saying that it would ever turn you into a liberal, but statistically, people become more liberal when they live in densely populated urban areas.
It's a pipe dream anyway because I could never afford the type of high-rise apartment that would suit my needs. Maybe I could afford a brownstone condo unit in Back Bay or Brooklyn - we'll see!