I agree. It just goes to show how invidious and complete the indoctrination has been, when even we the opposition unconsciously have fallen prey to using their terms. Language does matter.
“Gay” can be a fashion statement. The real point is man-on-man oral and anal sex.
If the “gay” person isn’t doing that, then he’s just confused and/or posing.
It never just “Stays in the bedroom” because it is PART of an agenda driving cause to destroy conventional values...
It is about forsaking their own birthright in the name of pent up emotional aggression towards their own parents.