Just not sure how you came up with the idea that so many women are frigid past 40 years old."
Ha! Good points. I know a lot of women over the age of 40 but NONE of them tell me about their sexual proclivities. But their husbands sure do. So either their wives are frigid or their wives are cheating. I'm guessing that the wives just lost interest.
As for how I know women past 40 are frigid, again, I cite Caitlin Flanagan and Dr. Laura, confirmed with personal observation. If you're wondering, Google "the sexless marriage" and you'll get a ton of hits. Lots of articles and lots of books.
What's curious about these articles and books is that the sexless marriage is a recent phenomenon, according to the stats. [I haven't read them, I just read Flanagan and Dr Laura and they both referenced them.] I won't go into the reasons here. But I'm guessing it has to do with modern notions of marriage and how these have slipped into a woman's psyche. Also, I expect that some of those notions of "all sex is rape" and "all men are rapists" has had an impact as well. If a woman is under 50 she has read, heard, or studied the authors of these dubious works.
So THAT's how I came up with the idea.
Thank you for the kind reply.
Far be it for me to go up against those 2 you cited,
it must hang with a ‘wild’ crowd!
I honestly do not know any of those women, maybe I just have great friends and family :)