I don’t think it’s a single conscious choice. I think it’s a fetish that comes from a collection of personality traits, some that people might be born with and some that develop over time, exposure and experience. Like any other fetish. Do people choose to be especially attracted to feet? Or blondes? Or bondage? No, all they know is that they are.
But that being true doesn’t change anything. Not all fetishes are harmless, or healthy, or for that matter— legal.
It’s a matter of accepting a demonic spell.
This does not need to be the end of the story. God is bigger than any devil.