As a red blooded American male, I am attracted to MANY women I meet, and yet I have managed to stay faithful to my wife for 20 years now.
The sex positive agenda (as espoused by Reich, Kinsey, and the socialist feminist Left, including Planned Parenthood's SIECUS sex ed division) believes that you SHOULD have acted on those urges.
Smash the patriarchy.
Smash monogamy.
Orgasm is a birthright to be enjoyed at every age.
End all moral judgments over sexual pairings of ANY kind regardless of sex, age, relation, marital status, number, or species of partner(s).
They believe "abstinence" to be unhealthy as it "suppresses" sexual desires.
Theirs was the ilk that ushered in swinging and mate "swapping" parties. Open marriage and group marriage were also on their agenda items.
Smash the patriarchy. Smash monogamy.
"And how does same sex marriage hurt mine?"
Question authority. Question THEIR authority and their agenda.
Problem is you been married for 30 years ;)