No, just raised different, I guess. I have never had a man say to me, “put down the bong”. I could not imagine any of the men I know saying that to a lady, a mother. But to each their own I guess. Good day.
Ma’am, how am I supposed to know that you are a lady, first, and that you are so easy to offend with an expression that is commonly used on FR? Be that as it may, a humbly beg your forgiveness.