Oh but they complain mightily if we carp about their constant underhanded tactics, bellittling and crazy azz nagging.
“You wouldn’t call a man a bitch, who does that. To you he’s just a man””
No Lucy, he’s an insecure jerk and a bitch.
Deal with facts in the realm and leave your emotional judo for your husbaneering projects.
Belittling takes a conversation that really shouldn’t last more than two minutes to something personal and I believe you mean it when you constantly pull it.
Stop pretending my past matters but, bringing yours forward once or twice a year makes me a victim....and besides the last doesn’t matter .
Well, it really wouldn’t but, for your constant carping when, really, everything IS actually okay.
What is your problem anyway?
Fight I asked. I don’t have all day or months to interpret the drivel you’re going to insist I endure before you finally reveal the actual point you wanted to make in the 1st place.
I’m gonna go hang out with the guys at the bar, play a game of pick up basketball(it would take too long to explain the term. Stop asking about it) or maybe I’ll retreat to my lair and play XBox.
Gotta put my mind on auto pilot. All that information you just dumped on me is very confusing and I find relaxation, by putting my mind on auto pilot, really distills everything leaving me, once again, with the facts.
I’ll be back to listen to your mealy mouthed, mind numbing crap later.
You seek to be constantly at war while always talking peace.
It’s exhausting.....really....
Reminds me of this:
“They have healed the brokenness of My people superficially, Saying, ‘Peace, peace,’ But there is no peace. “Were they ashamed because of the abomination they have done? They were not even ashamed at all; They did not even know how to blush. Therefore they shall fall among those who fall; At the time that I punish them, They shall be cast down,” says the LORD.
-- From Jerimiah 4
Amazing how they seek to put everyone in their place, but never think they should learn theirs. I honestly look forward to the day when men are no longer expected at all to be providers, sole providers, for their families. These days it’s no major chore to keep house and I remember an anecdote about a woman who decided to quit her career and become a full time housewife. She got upset because her husband believed that she would be the only one doing the laundry.
Isn’t that perverse?
Her husband is out busting his hump and she wants him to shoulder half the household chores as well? The point of being a stay at home housewife is because they keep house, not spend the days flower arranging and also shopping with friends and enjoying posh lunches while the husband slaves.