Considering some kids get encephalitis and side effects, even death after the vaccination, I’d say you’re both lucky.
If you are going to make claims like that, back them up with evidence. Otherwise, you are just repeating the bilge from the anti-vax sites whose authors could not care less if your children die of horrible diseases.
Given that schools require kids to be vaccinated, and that well over 95% of kids have had most or all of the required vaccinations, I'd think that we'd have noticed by now if kids were really dropping like flies from vaccines. Instead, what we see is that for the first time in history, the majority of children survive to adulthood because they are protected from the deadly diseases that used to kill most kids.