That's like saying to Putin that Ukraine's fate should be decided by Ukrainians. It sound nice; however... REALITY must be acknowledged.
The FED GOV has already taken over much what rightly are State issues including issues in the social arena. Softness is surrender; a Neville Chamberlain approach to the evident clear & present danger that Leftism embodies will not win the day when its intent is to at best maintain a tyrannical status quo and at worst cede more territory to the Left.
The Leftist FED GOV tyranny has to be driven out & destroyed.
Well, sounds like we’re in agreement. If we take down the excessive federal government, then these issues WILL go back to the states where they belong - then the people of each state can decide - like what actually happens in a free country...