[ Only whites can be racists. Everybody knows that. It’s Diversity Studies 101. ]
Try being a black female married to an asian or white male and going to a family function.....
Or just going anywhere with a lot of yutes...
Then you will know how Racists the Angelic folks who are never racist can be....
Try being my Black brother-in-law you say?
He doesn’t seem to have those same racist problems with my family or out in public as you describe.
Maybe it’s your family or the place that you live that is the problem.