The true characteristic that defines a homosexual is insanity. You do know that they are crazy, right?
They are involved in a form of activity that is extremely unhealthy, prone to disease and almost always ends in early death by disease, addiction or suicide.
Check out any study on the social and personal effects of rampant homosexual activity and it is amazing that the greater society allows them to remain untreated for their mental illness.
BTW I do know many gay people and one other thing they have in common are various other major psychological maladies, so I agree with you entirely there.