yeah I was a hostess at a swanky restaurant and a waiter who happened to be black asked me for a date and when I said no, he said “you don’t like me because I am black?”
Why would this person ask me on a date? I had no clue even what his whole name was, we had never talked, I had no insight into who he was, casual hook ups were not my style, I have always been afraid of men, I was in law school, who was he, didn’t know anything about him that would make me think he was compatible with me, what is in this turkey’s mind?
I honestly think some of them do it hoping they’ll be turned down so they can pull out the race card and see whitey blanch and stutter.
If I had to guess, he was expecting to get him some White Tail deer. Just once. Then, upon being shot down, played the card he knew best, the race card. Your experience has been related to me by an uncomfortably large number of people.
Times haven't changed very much, have they?
so what happened after that?
Why would he use that line? Most likely, because it WORKED for him often enough to be a viable tactic. There are some number of liberal women who don't want to be cast as "racist", so they say yes even if they would rather not.
OK, it didn't work on you, so he just moves on and asks another woman. Eventually, he gets a date.
I probably said I already had a boyfriend............