if it was the genius of our reproductive system, and the female of our species was chosen by design, biologically, to bear the burden of child creation, she alone should carry the decision of whether she wishes to reproduce. As such, she alone carries the burden of who should be the sperm donor, where and when the reproductive act should transpire. FAIR, and EQUITABLE, RIGHT? Let's apply the logic imposed on men...they have the right to decide, also...but only before they engage in the act. After that, they are along for the ride.
Seems fair to be equitable...