I’m already married in according to the state (for now), but if I had to do it over again, I wouldn’t bother with the state. I would still be married in the ONLY way it counts - by God.
And we keep pointing out that state sanction does not make a Marriage.
So tell other people to that if you want, but in the meantime let’s figure out some real world politics and strategies for the next couple of years to deal with what is facing us right now.