It may not be typical but it is not uncommon. You may be the naïve one if you think abortions are mostly goaded by the men involved. Women typically get abortions for their own reasons, not because a man wants them to, and seldom turn away from the decision to abort just because the man is opposed. And many of them are.
Surveys have shown that among the primary reasons for abortion are problems in the relationship, as identified by the mother.
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