Why not ask the mother with 3 children who’s husband decided to take off and leave her on her own.
Make a lot more sense than two people who want for nothing.
I'm not deriding your post, but there are a LOT of fathers out here pulling down the full time jobs, tending home and have kids full time. The deficit for them (the fathers)? MANY don't understand or short change the Dad's situation like they don't exist. Reality? It is VERY common but does not fit the story line and those guys get run through the grinder in "family court" anyway. To be true, there are dirt bag guys out there (lots) not supporting their responsibility, but there are also women that know those kids equal $$$ if they don't want that free abortion the democrats love to push. It is a net result of our society voting in politicians who condone such behavior. Lets face facts; our society learned it could vote itself the treasury as well as never being held to account at all ever again. It's not going to end well.