You do this man-bashing day after day? Hey, there's a CS Lewis quote that covers you, about oppressing people while keeping a clean conscience. That's you to a "T." I would call yours a miserable existence, but it's obvious you enjoy your work.
you are right—it is a miserable existence.
I represent men too. You would be amazed at the women who “give” their children to others and continue to collect child support.
However, the monster here is also the state enforcement agency that will continue to deduct from parent’s paychecks child support blindly and mercilessly, keep it as the agency’s own slush fund for 30 or more days before paying it out. I have tried to get others in my state interested in taking on this behemoth but nobody has the endurance.
That being said, I have experienced more guys who are the bad actors than women. Guys who have been in prison claiming they had custody of the child the whole time and shouldn’t have to pay child support, guys that used to pound on wives now jealous that she has painstakingly reconstructed her life in a healthy fashion, guys who willkeep the child hidden from their baby momma so they won’t have to pay child support, guys who take the child and drop him at grandma’s while he is out catting around.
If the men were more concentrated on putting their children in front of their selfish selves, making sure the children felt cared for and had everything they needed instead of trying to show the woman that they are the boss, things would be better.
Oppressing men? Don’t make me laugh. That is pathetic.