I don't know, why don't you tell me?
I stand corrected - you were not shilling. And I am truly sorry for your loss.
I note, however, that you posted this at the time:
"As for the 19 year old boy, I have no anger towards him as he will have to live with this tragedy for the remainder of his life as will his mother and father. I do not want to see him go to jail as I do not believe punishment is the answer in this situation. I wish I could have the opportunity to tell him in person that we do not hate him and only hope that this incident allows him to somehow, someway do some good for others someday in his life."
You seem to have come a long way from not wanting to even see such a person in jail, to being in complete support of three cops body-slamming a 72 year old woman - drunk and resisting or not.
Again, I am sorry for your loss. But it does not even remotely justify out-of-control cops. I suggest that you were under-reacting then, and over-reacting now. Under the circumstances, both are understandable. But I cannot agree with either position.
My Brother Scott
I am sincerely sorry for your loss. That, however, doesn't give the cops the right to play judge, jury and executioner.
I honestly think that you need professional help to deal with your loss.