All good tips.
I forgot to mention - a “code word” for funeral homes. When you, a grieving family member, call the funeral home to come and collect your deceased loved one, the person you speak with at the funeral home will ask you if you want them to “Prepare” the remains.
You automatically respond, “Yes”. You figure that means to get the remains dressed or something similar, right? It is code for embalming.
So, everyone, if you have decided to forgo embalming, remember that code word when the time comes. ASK if you are unsure, and make sure to state clearly that you do not opt for the embalming procedure.
I got my recent updated line item quote in writing, and had it put on record at the funeral home we will be using.