The ones that I have come across all have one thing in common. They all never matured mentally past high school. So that is how they act and that being age group is where they feel comfortable.
That’s definitely true
But often times it is completely physical and you’ll see a really intelligent lady with a great husband lose control over some babyfaced kid.
There’s a good reason there are so many of us. Sometimes that intense desire is skewed in people. That’s why you see homos, pedophiles, S&M and other fetishes, etc.