Stop puttin' those ideas in my head!
In retrospect, I should have said: “Never look up “selfies” on the Internet, or you will find millions of *headless* nude pictures of girls and women that they took themselves, and posted with a desperate plea to “pay attention to me”. It’s just sad.
The “headless” part is important, because while it seems to imply the desire for anonymity, in truth it is the rather bizarre “stare at my body, not my face”.
This flies in the face of women insisting that men look them in the eyes, not stare at their breasts. So there is some serious biological psychology going on here.
“Stare at my body until I select you for an interview as a potential mate, then only stare at my face, not my body.”