Ha. Not a keeper. Oops! Can the parents get a do over?
Maybe they could take out a restraining order....
The adoption agency could be sued for defective product
Adoptions can work - but time commitments to therapy and having an open mind on expectations - but a well regulated and organized home will get these children past the point of being rejected by their birth parents and accept they are in the best place they can be...
For anyone interested and want to pass along here are a few links:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2566997/
http://www.bloomingtonmeadows.com/
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/reactive-attachment-disorder/DS00988
And seek therapist that are trained and know about RAD.
Better to return to orphanages where children at least had some stability.
I have posted this before but will again. One of my friends adopted a child from Russia. The child’s and bio mother’s medical histories were hidden. The child was dropped at birth, suffering a severe brain injury. The mother received no prenatal care and drank heavily throughout her pregnancy. The son, adopted at 3 years, has SEVERE autism and my friend is all alone in handling him as her husband, the one who insisted on the adoption, bolted. The son is now a man, 16, and is over 6 ft, weighing about 250 lbs.
I beg all of you to not be judgemental. You have no idea what some of these adoptive families are going through and their options are very limited.
The couple feels it did its duty, and the child is ungrateful. What is the solution? Taking him to Jesus; did they do that?
Government making crimes out of things that are not crimes. No surprise there.
Wait, they raised him from infancy and now want to blame his behavior on what again?