Well I got another thought on that too.
Recast your battle focus. Eph 6 is not woofing. It is the key that unlocks the door to a successful battle.
ANY human, today our enemy, could be our friend tomorrow (or at least relent from some of his hatred, and then he who is not against us is for us) for all we know. One can deal severely if required with opponents without bestowing on them the kind of indelible recognition for evil power that belongs only to Satan.
As Satan is forced to back down, people too will change. Grudges against people will greatly hobble us from capitalizing on the situation.
Willful disobedience? You think we should forgive that? Forgiveness is a thing of the heart. Righteous indignation to those who willfully harm others for their own self aggrandizement begets consequences.