Point well taken.
Well, the war God wages is a weird war from our fallen point of view.
God is waging a “war” of blessings. We fallen humans think in terms of curses and refusing blessings (which is why God has to wage “war” to bless us).
Sometimes chastisements and cleansings have to take place, but those are not fundamental curses. And usually God orchestrates them through the normal course of events.
This is not a calculus that can be thought through overnight by many people. It is an inversion of worldly principles. Ultimately however once we grasp it, we now too seek to bless in the world. And the worldly will think that we are weird. And we won’t care.