So what do these people do? Go up to each party and say, “Hi, I’m Dayna. I’ll be your waitress tonight. Can I get you started with a drink? And oh, by the way, I’m a lesbian?”
I had a guy (?) applying for a job who showed up in a dress and then explained explicitly that he was a man living as a lesbian with a woman. I can't recall if he was a pre-op tranny, had already had it removed, or simply mentally ill.
Either way, I wasn't interested in him/it. The whole in-your-face thing is not cool. Mind your own business and most of the rest of the world will also.