Girls wrestling in high school. is nothing new. I am surprised it is still an issue. I wrestled in HS back in the ‘80s and there were two girls on my team. I see a lot of uninformed conjecture in this thread. When I wrestled a girl the last thing on my mind was T&A. You just didn’t want to lose to a girl and winning the match is all you think about!
I wasn't on the wrestling team, but I always let the girl pin me.