you know, back in the day, Freud described it in terms of immaturity.
of course, we know now that most homosexuals have been traumatized such that they fail to mature, or, choose not to mature (ie, girls abused choose never to be attractive to men and become “lesbians”).
So I think you are right.
of course there is the spiritual element, as well and that is even more important, but just speaking clinically here, I think disordered/narcissistic/immaturity describes it pretty well.
Lots of abused girls don't become lesbians, the vast majority in fact