I don’t support homosexuals in the military. I support competent people in the military.
I don’t support government recognition of homosexual marriages. I don’t support government recognition of any marriage, marriage being a religious sacrament, and the government being uniquely unqualified to rule on validity of religious sacraments.
As far as people being free to set up associations and legal connections that meet their needs, I support that, but it should be regulated by law, and those laws should be made in the usual way, not by judicial-fiat.
I think we know that you do not want to ban homosexuals from the military, and you do not want to refuse their recognition of gay marriage as long as they recognize normal marriage.
Your calls for only religions, all and any religions, to be able to make marriage law and the American people be subject to them is more silliness.
That should be fun when the military is trying to decide who or what the legal widow is, or wife in the case of living on base and in foreign assignments.