I'm afraid it doesn't work that way in NK...truly just about the most evil regime on the planet
If you don't comply...your immediate family, your grandparents, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews all go off to labor camps...
In North Korea, not only are the families and relatives of the criminals forced into concentrated camps, but second generations and third generations of the criminals are forced into prison camps as well because the North Korean state believes that "further generation of counterrevolutionaries" should disappear Link
As a teacher of some of those children, wow!
Yes, it's difficult dealing with the knowledge that the kids are "privileged", and come form a regime that deserves to be blasted into the stone age (no not the common people), but I still have fond memories of teaching many of these North Korean kids, many of whom were similar, and just as talented as their South Korean counterparts.